Use lube. You have no idea how sexy male moans are. Start out by using a finger. Go slow. You have to remember that. Use your hands or a sex toy to play with them, so that she has the opportunity to get off, too. Foreplay still matters. You still have to put in effort. You still have to seduce her.
1. I'm pretty sure the butt wasn't made to be penetrated. Is anal sex bad for you?
You have to open the lines of communication
I mean, gross. As I got older, I became less of a stick in the mud and decided to give anal more of a chance. Eventually, I discovered that, done right, women absolutely loved it , and soon I enjoyed it a fair bit too. The fear for her, that comes with accepting you into the wrong hole
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Many men enjoy it, but convincing your girlfriend to have anal sex may be a challenge. So how do you fulfill this fantasy if your partner is against it? First things first: talk it over. Find out exactly what makes her hesitant to try it and then see what you can do to belie her fears. Pain vs. This is usually because their first attempt was painful. Unless your girl has a masochistic streak, pain is not on her agenda when it comes to getting off.
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