It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was.
They have money for nannies, trips, vacation homes, their children go to the finest colleges, etc. I have no control over my schedule I'm sure you all remember those daysand it kills me to know that he has moved thousands of kilometers away from our home town with me so that I can do this residency. Perhaps it was just her personality but I find most doctors repulsive. These girls are nervous around non-Mormons. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. Is your mind made up and you want justifying support.
I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. Well, maybe not a total disaster, that is a bit exaggerated. Whatever you do, just don't let on to your child ren that you and their father are in disagreement. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours. There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics.
God works by small and simple means to bring about His great and eternal purposes. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. Aw, glad I can help. I am one to really like my space and opportunity to do my own thing and little projects. I do know other doctors who have more balance but take a cold hard look at what your life will be like if your man is married to medicine. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god.