Sexy ways to get down with your bad self. Illustrations by Jenny Yuen. You've had a long hard day, so why not lie down and put your hands straight down your underwear because you're too lazy to take them off. Purse still over your shoulder, heels flying off because you need it now. You feel like trying something new tonight so try using your opposite hand to masturbate. It'll feel weird, almost like you're fooling around with someone for the first time, and that's what makes it so completely hot. When all that "just a little bit" or "almost all of it" crap is just not cutting it, use that whole damn dildo. The shower's hot but this is hotter.
Solo Sex Positions to Try for a Seriously Incredible Weekend
When it comes to DIY fun, masturbation is one of the most satisfying ways to unwind , relax and treat yourself to a quiet or not so quiet night in. Interested in changing up or elevating your solo play? Read on for a few of our favorite toe-curling masturbation positions and give yourself the gift of a good orgasm. How you do it: Start by lying on the bed on your stomach, using a pillow or two to support your stomach and hips. Use your hands or a toy or both! Tuck your feet and ankles around the chair legs, leaving your legs open. Use your fingers or use the removable showerhead stream to tease, or pick up your favorite water-resistant vibrator for guaranteed orgasms. Or rotate among all three! Leaning forward and back can provide new sensations, and it allows you to open up the rest of your body for exploration and play with your fingers, toys, even nipple clamps.
Do it face down
Takeaway: Got a vulva? Here are 8 positions for you to try while you show yourself some sweet lovin. Like one in four people with vulvas , I have a daily self-love session. One of the easiest ways to connect with yourself is via masturbation. Not only is it healthy and normal to touch yourself, it feels pretty damn good. Women have double the number of nerve endings in their clits as men have in their penises, compared to , says Jenny Block, author of O Wow: Discovering Your Ultimate Orgasm.
Porn isn't exactly famed for its realism. Women masturbate with legs splayed and backs arched, orgasming after a few minutes of frantic rubbing and moaning. But in reality, those positions aren't necessarily the most conducive to pleasure for women. What might seem hot in a male fantasy — which informs much of the porn we watch — isn't always close to what actually gets women off. I must admit, it hadn't occurred to me that the way I masturbate might have been influenced by the porn I was privy to growing up. Given that many British women received little or no information about female self-pleasuring during sex ed lessons, many of us have been left to fill in our knowledge gaps with porn. A global survey of over 10, people by sex toy company Tenga found just 14 percent of British women learned about sexual pleasure during sex ed at school, and 17 percent of women learned about masturbation.