To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway. It has been closed. You are a good person. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. Your crush will watch you closely to see how you interact with these little ones. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. How do you really feel about that. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. But, as someone posted earlier we did not marry a physician completely for the status and money, we also expect as should any wife love and respect.
You will have to bring her down to reality. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. Be prepared for divorce. None felt right, ever. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end.
Matching caused a lot of drama in our relationship. I was with him before I even started college and the past year was especially tough as I am getting more and more busy. You should be fine as long as you stick to the lines you have laid out. She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life. He's emotionally threatening me to keep his infidelities a secret. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship. I'd rather marry a rich doctor and let him have his affair s on the side just so long as I don't have to work anymore.
I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. Thanks again for the help. I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. How would that motivate you to work out every day to get a girl. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. She was so sad over what she sacrificed it just haunted everyone on Reddit.